Awo Egúngún lobìrín lè ṣe (Women may do Egungun rites)

Awo Gẹ̀lẹ̀dẹ́ lobìrín lè mọ̀ (Women may know Gelede rituals)
Bóbìrín bá fojú korò (If a woman views Oro ceremonies)
Orò á gbé e. (Oro will kidnap her).

Three questions: is this fair gender balance?
Is this patriarchal terrorism or threat?
What would it sound like if men were those threatened with kidnapping?