Dearest Ooduarere Readers: How is abortion not a big deal?

I, my better half and three different companions were having a dialog the previous evening at a companions house and while talking, my sweetheart hurled. One of the women there flippantly asked as to whether she was pregnant.. also, my sweetheart laughed it off saying no, that on the off chance that she was pregnant she would know. The woman asked as to whether she’d had youngster before and sweetheart said no yet she’d been pregnant before yet she had a fetus removal. She said it so calmly like she was discussing the cost of aso-ebi.

The abortion was for an ex, not me so you can imagine my shame. I called her later to blast her over what she said and demanded it’s not a big deal . How is abortion not a big deal ? In the event that she can confess to one, how many has she done? I’m considering breaking up with  her. Would I be on the right track to do as such?