Family is not meant to be by blood alone, it’s by heart. Some will call you their family due to what they are receiving or gaining from you. immediately the gain stop, they look for someone else to call family and when they see new family, they will start telling lies, spoiling you and degrading you not only to their new family, but to anyone get close to them.
If I call you my family either by blood or by heart, even if we stop talking, no matter what I will continue to be at your back.
Like they use to say that only a fool will believe ill talk from a fool mouth.
But don’t let that get to you. Ifa already said it that:
Èyàn ránhun rànhun
Èyàn ní n fií hàn ooo
Èyàn ránhun rànhun…..
Worthless person
Will be disclosed by someone
Worthless person…..
So no matter what they do or say, never let them walk through you, leave them behind because that’s where they belong and you should continue to excel. ”
~Owo