Please help: “Is This Lady Using Me?”

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I dated a girl during my school days, though we broke up doing my finals, but we have had sex thrice but not that intimate anymore,we sometimes chatted, visit each other, but she has a bf & she said it over btw us, but if I didn’t speak to her like 2 wks, she will be angry, calling me that I have abandoned her, though she stays with d new bf, but if she needs help financially, she always runs to me, presently she needs another financial help,

Pls am I been used by her or is there a bit of me inside her, I need help pls.