In ancient Africa, the family was the bedrock of society, extending far beyond just parents and children. It was an expansive, interconnected network, often including extended relatives, ancestors, and even future generations. This deep lineage provided a strong sense of identity and belonging.
Every member had a vital role. Elders were revered for their wisdom, guiding decisions and preserving oral traditions. Parents nurtured and educated, passing down essential skills and cultural values to their children. Children learned through observation and participation, preparing for their future contributions.
This family structure fostered communal living and mutual support. Decisions were often made collectively, prioritizing the well-being of the entire group. The emphasis was on continuity, ensuring traditions and knowledge were passed down, building a lasting legacy for generations to come.
That beautiful ancient African family in our generation today is almost or has gone into extinction. Nollywood, social media, and the strange desire to imitate the Caucasian man are contributory factors to the cankeredness of that lovely African family, where the young ones were always eager to learn from the wisdom of the old ones. Now, a African young man claims he knows better than his elders; now, you must have money to earn respect even if you are the wisest in your community.