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Dear Admin,
I am a 23year old female. My parents died when i was 8 yrs and so i dropped out of school because no-one could afford enough
money to pay my fees. I then met this guy when i was 14 and he struggled to send me back to school. He was selling fruit by the
street just to pay my fees. He then got a job as a truck driver and continue to send me to school even to the university, of which i
am eternally grateful to him for… indeed there are angels made by God to help the needy in times of trouble.
My problem is that i feel i can’t continue with this relationship because he is not my type, i am not the girl that i used to be when he first saw me, dont get it wrong, i am honestly appreciative of what God has used him to do in my life but i just cant get totally committed to him
based on pity or how he helped me. So im thinking How best can i tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings?? I
am grateful that he sent me to school but i can’t be in a relationship with him anymore. I want somebody of my own
class not a truck driver.
Please Advice me
Well, I guess he’s just your helper and should not necessary be your lover. If you do not love him. Try to find a way to let him know. In a way that he won’t be so hurt or hurt himself. You may start by showing some weird feelings. A kind of rejected feeling. Like giving him red light. If he doesn’t understand stop picking his calls or find your square root.
That’s the easiest exit ! Naturally your helper should not be asking for anything in return. You can give back to him, send him to school or college or just do something great. I hope it’s not because of his Job that you did not like him cos a truck driver makes more money abroad than a bank teller !