5 Empathetic Girlfriends You Need By Your Side During A Breakup

2. The “Hater” Girlfriend
Almost as indispensable as your wifey (at least in the beginning stages of grief) is the friend who reminds you why you two broke up in the first place.
It’s easy to become clouded with sadness and distorted memories when you’re missing someone. She’s there to act as the harsh one, the one who satisfies the petty desires you’re ashamed to admit to anyone else.
She understands that even though you don’t hate your ex, you want to hear he’s chubby, sad and forever single. She hates him so you don’t have to hold onto those ugly feelings in your heart.
This friend is invaluable, as she reminds you of his lame qualities when all you can remember are the great times you shared. She may not take you over to the dark side, but she provides you with some much-needed levity.