6. You’re Not Being Honest
When you start to hide things from each other, you’re walking down a deadly path. If you do something that you wouldn’t tell your spouse about it, you may not want to do it. Mystery is sexy, but secrets are deadly.
This message is for young people. And those young at heart. Do Africans have original ideas about love and romance? Is it Cupid with the bow shooting an arrow to pierce a heart? Is there an African logic of love? If so, how is this original idea of love expressed? The answer to the first question is a resounding “Yes!” “Love” in Yoruba is “Ìfẹ́.” And to understand how this logic is expressed as an original concept in Yoruba, you ...