2)’Why are you so lazy, annoying, selfish, ungrateful? / Why aren’t you better, kinder?
Try not to attack your partner personally when you’re disturb, on the grounds that it doesn’t help. You’re with them, the entire bundle of them, and they’re with you, the entire bundle of you. In case you’re as one, then you’re a match in some way or another. In the event that you need the nature of your relationship to improve, it begins with how you communicate. Genuinely express how you are and what you would like, without using blame, criticism or making demands