Things To Figure Out In The 1st Six Weeks Of Relationships

4. Do you want the same things
if you don’t share overall life values, your relationship may suffer in the end. This can mean that ultimately you don’t agree on religion, where to live or having children. Many couples think those issues will sort themselves out but sometimes they don’t, even after you are together several years,” Van Kirk says.
You might not want to bring these topics up in the first six weeks because it could seem like too much, but think about it casually. Comment on a cute kid, talk about how you’ve dreamed of living somewhere else, or bring up a memory from your childhood about religion. More likely than not, he’ll chime in. Just make sure you listen.