Which Is The best way To land A Great Wife?

I’m in my own mid 30s and is truly desirous in settling down with the proper lady but I’m confused as hell. I’ve dated number of ladies and the experiences are better imagined as these kinds of ladies develop into another thing in some time in the relationship.

Because of this fact, I’m even afraid of approaching another since it’s the usual woo a girl I don’t know from Adam and begin to review her, her family and et AL yet again and in the length of such enterprise things will come crashing again unexpectedly.

Could it be ideal if I depend on relations, friends for a referral? I was thinking it is way better just because a particular relation already knows your ex background and exactly about her.

Please between wooing a girl or banking on referral, which will be Best OPTION in landing a great woman for marriage?