Relationships & Romance

This message is for young people. And those young at heart. Do Africans have original ideas about love and romance? Is it Cupid with the bow shooting an arrow to pierce a heart? Is there an African logic of love? ...

The first time he sent a DM was on January 11th, 2020. At first, it was just a casual chat that I didn’t want to get past Twitter. We talked for a while until I agreed to meet up one ...

A trend is now occurring in our society with most marriages crashing within 2 to 3 months of getting married. All that most young couples care about is getting married but not staying married. They go about sharing asoebi and ...

Divorce in Nigeria is on the rise and is just a major reason for concern. Divorce can occur for many different reasons, many of that continue to be discovered. Few Nigerians divorce in a courtroom. Either the wife is separated ...

The issue of infidelity A relationship can end when one partner leaves it to satisfy their needs, whether they be physical or sexual. Infidelity is a significant contributor to divorce. It is one of the legal reasons for divorce in ...

A lack of communication  Marriages require excellent communication, and failing to do so quickly can result in dissatisfaction and anger on both sides, which negatively affects the marriage in all respects. However, effective communication is the backbone of a healthy ...

Unforgiveness This is yet another major cause of divorce. No sin is too great to be pardoned. When one partner has vowed in his or her heart never to pardon the other for an error made, an offence committed, or ...

Lack of love Every relationship, including marriage, needs to have love. Forgiveness, communication, understanding, tolerance, patience, happiness, belief in one another, compromise, the oneness of heart, and trust are all characteristics of love. Without love, marriage is merely a contract ...

Lack of mental preparation  Anyone who doesn’t plan is planning to fail. Without mental preparation, financial, spiritual, and bodily preparedness falls short. In a marriage, a lot of unexpected things might happen. Your mental readiness will alert you to be ...