19. Moving to a new town or part of town so that you are the ‘new girl’. This always peaks the men’s interest and at the same time you get to run away from your past and the ‘old maid’ labels! Combine this with number 16 above and ooh la la!
18. Abandoning your hopes, dreams and ambitions! I’ve heard people say that women looking for a prince charming live unrealistic dreams, virgins are old-school, overly educated women are proud, rich ladies are not
submissive, ambitious ladies are conceited, women with demanding jobs won’t have time for their families, ladies who want a faithful man are deluded and women who don’t get pregnant before wedlock have something wrong with their plumbing! So forsake the
masters, don’t even dream of a PhD, quit your job, give away all your money and surely a husband will come… And if all else fails…
19. Segun a married man! He could be your friend’s husband, your sister’s husband, your cousin’s husband, your colleague’s husband, even your mother’s husband if you like!
Can you blame these women? The average
guy has commitment phobia or is out to play till he is all spent before he settles down or is waiting to make his first ’5 million’ before saying ‘I do’. Even a man with no future ambition or class, much less finances still knows he could have his pick of the best women out there, once he announces he is looking to settle! The
last census showed a female-dominated demographic with more ladies per eligible bachelor. Family and society constantly put the woman in hot water making her personal successes irrelevant till she bags
a man.