1) Ignorance and taboos: Some men believe that the vagina is not clean. But scientifically, it has been shown that vagina is cleaner than the mouth. It has a self cleansing mechanism just like the mouth. It may smell, but not worse than the mouth.
2) Habits and failure to understand the basic nature of s3x could be a problem too. Indeed, oral s3x is extremely valuable to a man. The reasons is simple. A woman is capable of continuing in a s3xual act even after she has climaxed. However, if a man climaxes, he is not able to maintain erection and to continue the act. This is why, the masters would tell you to do everything to make sure the woman reaches orgasm before the man does. But often, the man is not able to regulate his body or his performance to guarantee that the woman would reach orgasm before he does.
3) So, when the penis fails, the tongue can finish the job without getting tired. The tongue has an advantage over the penis because the tongue never loses its turgidity/strength. It can keep going for as long as it takes to get her to the cliff.
4) Also, since the woman can continue after her orgasm, but the man cannot, every effort must be made to get the woman to orgasm first. The penis cannot be trusted to do the work, except for those few men who have attained the highest level of discipline and self-regulation. So, the best option is to let the tongue rig the process for you. That is: the man should use his tongue on the woman first until he places her on the edge of orgasm, then he can switch to the penis and use it to finish the job. Since the tongue has done 90% of the job, it will be guaranteed that she reaches orgasm before the man.
If you have issues with oral s3x, try to have a discussion with your wife. Tell her your fears and why you are reluctant to give her oral s3x. If it has to do with her hygiene, let her know and two of you should discuss ways to improve hygiene. There are many ways to get it done. I don’t want to share some tricks with you here publicly. But if you use your imagination, there are many ways to learn to enjoy oral s3x.
And finally, for the men, it gives you tremendous psychological power of dominance when you watch your woman go through orgasm in your hands. I know that African men like to feel on top and powerful toward their women. They want to be the boss. They want her to beg. The best and only way to do that is during her orgasm. If you can get your woman to orgasm, she will do anything for you. The fights will stop and the feelings of complex and inferiority that drive men to violence will stop. Also, the false accusations and suspicion that your wife is cheating on you will not arise if you constantly get her to orgasm because you will know that no other man can do it better than you and she will never have need to try to find out.
So, set your mind on this. I would expect that in the next few months, all Oduarere men would be giving their wives oral treatments.
The problem is when u get an unhygienic lady, infact that would make u hate such.
Some Vijays oozes like pit toilet in a hot sun?
hahaha .u can help to tidy it bro
You need to change the ladies you relate with…or help them upgrade..
Mairo Ochocho It hurts a lot when a pretty lady with oozing vijay asks you to clean her plate.And she boldly tells you as if her nose is faulty.
Adebiyi Adeniyi Ehn tell her hoha to go n baff… ..ok just kidding..tell her you ll like to take a shower with her first. Diplomacy is life..
But come ooo…as for me and myself..I m only referring to your wife ooo…not in today out tommorow girlfriend..my hand no dey oo..
oral sex is one key component that can easily help a woman climax easier than penis,I see nothing wrong with that,infact sometimes I do some crazy things with my wife and anything it takes to make her come she will surely do same,any woman who usually climax easily forgives and keep loving that man and can never look outside,so let everyone follow any method that works for her family.